We had a harrowing time getting to our turn off at Roosevelt and Wolf aves to find Sara's Grandmother Sarah in her grave at Mt. Carmel cemetary, in Chicago's old Italian neighborhood. On the way we stopped for flowers, which we left in the car while we had lunch at this local cafe. The waitress grabbed some carnations from the flowers near the register and gave them to Sara as we left, saying ?Happy Mother's Day? even though she spoke no English.